I lived in Korea from around age 5 to age 10... my mother is from Seoul, so it was a great formative experience to get to know her culture (and some of our extended family) overseas. There were definitely some Korean culture traits that did NOT carry over into adulthood (kimchi, burping at meals, sharing entrees, maintaining ivory pale skin, and views on tattoos/piercings).... but there were others that did: respect for elders, not wearing shoes indoors, and appreciation for public baths to name a few.
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Wi Spa in LA |
Public baths?! Say what? When I was younger, and we lived in Korea, I would go with my mother to the
Jjimjilbang, or sauna. The
Jjimjilbang consists of two parts.... one is a co-ed sauna, where everyone wears matching pajamas issued to you by the staff. You sit on
ondol (heated) floors, even drink and eat as you relax. You also pop into the different varieties of sauna, from ice sauna to salt sauna to traditional clay. It's a social event, and it's warm and relaxing. Sitting overnight with your pals at a the
Jjimjilbang is cheaper than staying at a hotel.
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Example of public sauna area (source) |
The other part of the Korean sauna experience is segregated by gender. This is the public bath portion, where you enter a giant wet room of naked bath experience. There are shower stalls, low shower heads with hoses and stools to sit on, buckets, dry and wet sauna, and a variety of public tubs... the tubs are typical ice cold, warm, then super-hot, sometimes with a rose water or green tea tub too.
You can also purchase services like massage, facials, and scrubbing. The scrubbing is the best part.
I don't remember the order of the ritual, but my Mom would have me soak, then go into a sauna, then soak again, then she'd scrub me until I'm red all over. You could see grey pills of dead skin exfoliate off my body... it was gross but simultaneously fantastic. Then you'd jump in another tub and restart the process over again. You feel ten pounds lighter. Seriously. And you need someone else to help you or it just isn't the same.
My American friends do not understand this... even at age 28 my mother will still offer to bathe me when I visit her. But it's as comforting and normal to me as apple pie.
On my recent trip to LA, my sister, cousin and I all enjoyed HOURS of Korean bath goodness. Yes, you're surrounded by woman of all ages, shapes, and sizes in the buff. But there's just complete acceptance there. I've never felt cleaner! We were at the
Wi Spa, which I highly recommend. It was interesting because this was the first one I'd been to where you saw non-Korean people, but apparently the secret is spreading and lots of folks are embracing the experience. I can't wait for another chance to go back.